Honoring Wyatt at the 2 Year Mark

This week has been a lot of revisiting and remembering. The 2 year mark will arrive tomorrow and with it, a lot of painful memories, a lot of tears. But I’ve also been revisiting the kindness that we have seen and received.

I was just looking back on one year ago. When we were coming up on this anniversary for the very first time. Wow, was that hard. But the kindness that was shown to us and shared throughout our community and beyond was amazing. Between personal messages we received, social media posts that were shared, and those we encountered throughout the week, I am still in awe. So many expressed kindness in their own ways and shared Wyatt’s memory. These are the greatest gifts that we can receive.

So, what are we doing this year? How are we honoring Wyatt? Through kindness again. We have a few things planned ourselves. And like last year, we ask that anyone who would like to honor Wyatt do so in kindness. Do something nice for someone else. Something unexpected. Something out of the blue. Or maybe it is something planned. Something as simple as a smile. A hug. Treat someone to a coffee. Hold the door for someone. Let someone know you care. Do a favor for a neighbor. Play a little longer with your kids.

Do it in honor of Wyatt. Do it in his memory. Do it to keep his spirit alive.

If you’d like to share, post it somewhere on social media and use the hashtag #WyattsWay. Or keep it private. Some of the best acts of kindness are anonymous.

And really, there are no rules.

There’s no doubt in my mind that Wyatt would be smiling at the efforts of kindness in his name. And the love that still flows for him.

I can’t say that year 2 is any easier. In some ways it has been even harder. We still miss Wyatt with every ounce of our beings. There is still a hole in our lives where he should be. Grief can still sneak up and grab me at the drop of a hat.

The kindness and love of our family, friends, acquaintances, and strangers has carried us through and will continue to do so. We are ever grateful for that. Thank you for remembering our boy with us. It truly is the greatest gift.


Happy Anniversary

Today was our 14th wedding anniversary. What a ride it has been. Last year I wrote this post on Facebook and it still holds true today.

Brooks is amazing. The strength that he has had and the love for us, for me and Shane and Wyatt is overwhelming. I am so blessed. 

We decided we would go out to dinner to celebrate tonight. We decided on a yummy local spot. We arrived and were seated at our table. Just after ordering drinks, I heard a familiar song come on. I was a little taken aback. It was Humble and Kind by Tim McGraw. This song quickly became the song that was identified with Wyatt after he died. It became synonymous with how Wyatt lived and the legacy he left behind. 

Needless to say, we were both quickly in tears.

Coincidence? I’m not so sure. Our sweet Wyatt saying Happy Anniversary and sending his love our way? You can call me crazy or tell me I’m just reading into things, but I’ll never turn down a little love sent from my boy.  

Happy Anniversary to us ❤️